I have asked that questions to a lot of people - some agree and some disagree. I say okay. I do believe that everything happens for a reason. We just need to find out why. I guess I have come to understand that we never will. I believe that things are put in our way to teach us something, or make us aware their needs to be a change in our lives. Do you believe in what your horoscope says everyday? How can one persons horoscope say the same thing to everyone under that sign. Does everyone have that kind of day. I believe that it all starts with our thoughts. They say thoughts become things - choose the good ones. Think negative - get negative. Think positive - get positive. I know that it is really hard to stay positive all the time. I will not say "can't be done" because if you say that that is what you will get. Say I can and it will happen but you need to keep putting that positive thought in place of the negative. Over time it will get easier. JUST FOCUS!!!