I came a cross this book by Keith Cameron Smith named; The Top 10 Distinctions between Winners and Whiners. I founded very cool I'm sure you will too. I have read other books from Keith and I have been in his seminars and I can tell you this guy has some good stuff. The Top 10 Distinctions between Winners and Whiners: 10.Winners take responsibility. Whiners play the victim. 9. Winners can have what they want. Whiners want what they cannot have. 8. Winners find a way. Whiners find an excuse. 7. Winners brighten a room by entering. Whiners brighten a room by leaving. 6. Winners listen twice as much as they talk. Whiners talk twice as much as they listen. 5. Winners enjoy life's journeys. Whiners put their joy in the destinations. 4.Winners build friendships. Whiners destroy friendships. 3. Winners think big. Whiners think small. 2. Winners are focus-minded. Whiners are scatterbrained. 1. Winners create positive meanings. Whiners create negative meanings. I hope you enjoy it as much as I did!